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Tantrums – How to Act

Alexia M. Duplessis by Alexia M. Duplessis
October 2, 2023
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Introduction

Tantrums are a common behavior in young children, especially between the ages of 1 and 4. They can be frustrating for both the child and the parent or caregiver. However, it’s important to remember that tantrums are a normal part of child development and can be managed effectively. In this article, we will discuss strategies for how to act when your child has a tantrum.

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Understanding Tantrums

Before we dive into how to handle tantrums, it’s important to understand why they occur. Tantrums are often a result of frustration, anger, or a desire for autonomy. Young children have limited communication skills, so a tantrum may be their way of expressing their emotions or their inability to get what they want.

Remain Calm

One of the most important things to remember when your child is having a tantrum is to remain calm. It can be difficult to stay calm in the face of a screaming child, but getting upset or losing your temper will only escalate the situation. Take a deep breath, remind yourself that tantrums are normal, and try to maintain a sense of composure.

Validate Their Feelings

While it may be tempting to dismiss your child’s tantrum or tell them to stop, it’s important to validate their feelings. Let them know that you understand they are upset and that it’s okay to feel that way. Use simple language to acknowledge their emotions, such as saying, ‘I know you’re frustrated because you can’t have that toy right now’ or ‘I understand that you’re angry because we have to leave the playground.’

Set Boundaries

While validating your child’s feelings is important, it’s also essential to set boundaries. Make it clear to your child what behaviors are acceptable and what behaviors are not. For example, you can say, ‘I understand you’re upset, but hitting is not okay. We can talk about your feelings, but we don’t hit.’

Provide a Safe Environment

During a tantrum, it’s important to ensure that your child is in a safe environment. Move them away from any potential hazards such as sharp objects or busy streets. If possible, find a quiet and calm space where they can express their emotions without causing harm to themselves or others.

Use Distraction

Distraction can be a helpful strategy during a tantrum. Try redirecting your child’s attention to something else that interests them or engages them. This could be a favorite toy, a book, or even a fun activity. By shifting their focus, you may be able to diffuse the tantrum and redirect their energy in a positive way.

Stay Consistent

Consistency is key when it comes to handling tantrums. Set clear expectations and consistently enforce them. If you give in to a tantrum once, your child may learn that this behavior gets them what they want. Stick to your boundaries and be firm in your responses, even if it’s challenging.

Offer Choices

As children grow, they desire more autonomy. Offering choices can help prevent tantrums by giving your child a sense of control. Instead of saying, ‘Get dressed,’ you can say, ‘Would you like to wear the red shirt or the blue shirt?’ This simple choice allows your child to feel like they have some say in the matter.

Time-Outs

Time-outs can be an effective tool for managing tantrums, particularly if your child becomes aggressive or is endangering themselves or others. When using time-outs, it’s important to choose a designated spot where your child can calm down. Time-outs should be short and age-appropriate. After the time-out, take the opportunity to talk to your child about their behavior and provide emotional support.

Conclusion

Tantrums can be challenging for both parents and children, but by understanding why tantrums occur and employing effective strategies, you can navigate these situations with confidence. Remember to remain calm, validate your child’s feelings, set boundaries, and provide a safe environment. Stay consistent, offer choices, and use time-outs when necessary. With patience and understanding, you can help your child learn to manage their emotions and develop healthier ways of expressing themselves.

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Alexia M. Duplessis

Alexia M. Duplessis

With a pen as my sword, I've ventured to illuminate the unseen, challenge conventions, and champion the underrepresented. Through stories, I strive to foster understanding and provoke change.

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